It's a hard lesson to learn but EXPECT to be taken for granted when you're always giving BEFORE the person has to ask, AND when you don't check if the person really WANTS what you're offering. Think of it, the person NEVER has to say please or thank you. BE CAREFUL not to be an enabler to being taken for granted. It is a very difficult lesson to learn but totally worth it. Change the cycle, everyone will be better for it!