A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning

 As virtuous men pass mildly away,
And whisper to their souls to go,
Whilst some of their sad friends do say
The breath goes now, and some say, No:

So let us melt, and make no noise,
No tear-floods, nor sigh-tempests move,
'Twere profanation of our joys
To tell the laity our love.

Moving of th' earth brings harms and fears,
Men reckon what it did and meant,
But trepidation of the spheres,
Though greater far, is innocent.

Dull sublunary lovers' love
(Whose soul is sense) cannot admit
Absence, because it doth remove
Those things which elemented it.

But we by a love so much refined
That our selves know not what it is,
Inter-assurèd of the mind,
Care less, eyes, lips, and hands to miss.

Our two souls therefore, which are one,
Though I must go, endure not yet
A breach, but an expansion,
Like gold to aery thinness beat.

If they be two, they are two so
As stiff twin compasses are two;
Thy soul, the fixed foot, makes no show
To move, but doth, if th' other do.

And though it in the centre sit,
Yet when the other far doth roam,
It leans and hearkens after it,
And grows erect, as that comes home.

Such wilt thou be to me, who must
Like th' other foot, obliquely run;
Thy firmness makes my circle just,
And makes me end where I begun.

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September 8, 2026 at 5:28 AM
This poem by John Donne is truly a masterpiece. Donne's language is beautifully intricate, and he uses rich metaphors to express a deep and enduring love. The central idea of two souls being interconnected like a pair of compasses is both unique and powerful. His ability to portray love as something that transcends physical presence, linking emotions and spirituality, creates a touching and sophisticated piece. The poem invites readers to appreciate the purity and strength of love that does not fade with distance. Appreciating poetry like this—brings us closer to understanding emotions in the most eloquent way!
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