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Your the victim, not the patient


Blog Posted:11/8/2012 11:40:00 AM

Abuse comes in many forms and mentally stages
I may say it's mentally strange......
Victims abuse may not know....How to feel or tell
Some think there the
crazy one...The one in the wrong....
Some live with it every second of the day....
Abusers
love to attack, so their reality in life is safe....
It's the
mental way out

Abuse is someone
who hits you to get ...What they want...
Making
you feel low about yourself....Have you put....
Yourself down....To where
your talking about yourself.....
Having you feel sorry ...for the
abuser....the one attacking you....
The one putting you down....
It's like a fix...for the abuser...it's a drug

It's a high you...
the victim...gives the abuser....
Once the abuser is fix...and feels good
Your the one sitting there
feeling locked up...
Feeling no way out...
wondering ...
When the next round is coming.....

Such abuse can cause
personality disorder.....
Either in the abuser or the victim....Because, yes...
you are the victim
As the
abuser is the patient...Who needs help....It's simple for the abuser...
to put the burden...of there illness on you...Their are many disorders


1.
Narcissistic personality disorder

2.Borderline personality disorder

3.Antisocial personality disorder

You also have certain attacks, on abuse

1. Physical attack

2.Verbal attack

3.Sexual attack


You also have the forms in which abuse is written

1.
Emotional abuse
2. Verbal abuse = is mental abuse
3. Sexual abuse
4. Physical abuse

The victim needs to restore confidence...
Realize it's not there fault
Abusers are cowards...and bullies....and the only way out
.....is to realize you are the victim....not the patient

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  1. Date: 11/8/2012 2:07:00 PM
    sad ... light & love

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  1. Date: 11/8/2012 12:50:00 PM
    When a person has been battered, over a period of time, their self esteem may have been impacted, and it may very well be necessary to get psychological help, counseling, to get back on the right track. Best wishes, catie :)

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