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Blog Posted:10/24/2012 10:35:00 AM

I can not sit here, and write about relationships unless I equal them out. There are mother, and children relationships. There are father, and children relationships. There are the husband, and wife relationships. There are grandparents,friends, and best friend relationships. The matter is respecting, and trusting the relationship. Not letting the physical, or verbal abuse come in the relationship.

 A relationship comes within you. It comes with trust, and honesty. When one is building a relationship, one is building a bond. Its connecting the chain of a friendship. When your in a relationship your connected. Theirs a connection between you, and the individual. Sometimes you feel A good chemistry feeling so bonded. Sometimes relationships become a union. Something big! Everyone out there has a relationship rather its mother, friend, or son. It's about the the bond, and keeping it true.

It's realizing you care for someone. It's knowing you have someone to talk to. Someone you may turn to in trouble times. A relationship is knowing you could be you. Be powerful, confident, and free. Relationships are very misunderstood. All the fighting, and yelling is so unnecessary in relationships. All the pushing away, and shutting doors. Also unnecessary! Many of us go through so many changes, and challenges in a relationship.

The best part is understanding your part in the relationship. Once you figure out your part in the relationship. Life will become easier. If your the husband be the husband! If your the son be the son. Be who you are in every relationship. Inspire others in what you do, and know. Theirs no need for anyone to feel abandoned.

Theirs no need to feel sympathetic or rejected. Stand up, and feel productive, determined, capable, and confident in everything. Know your never alone. Your always in a relationship. Starting with the man upstairs. The Lord Almighty! Then with yourself! Life is what you make of it. Not the next person, or the relationship.

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  1. Date: 10/24/2012 8:05:00 PM
    I've always been happy to have strong and lasting relationships and can't understand those that cannot achieve it. It's just a part of life. A very good part of life that is give and take and very worthwhile!

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  1. Date: 10/24/2012 4:19:00 PM
    A relationship is a work in progress with rewards of the heart. But with out a few falls and scars we will never see the right ones. My 4 cents. Michael :•)

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  1. Date: 10/24/2012 12:23:00 PM
    If you start with your relationship with God, the others will all fallinto place. married 40 years(almost).

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  1. Date: 10/24/2012 11:51:00 AM
    i will always remember what my mom used to say, and it is so timeles: " be the relationship you want to be..."... huggs!..:)

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  1. Date: 10/24/2012 11:31:00 AM
    What happened to relationship compromising Instead they become equally mentally damaging practicing the art of being demanding When they should be actively searching for understanding When they could be workin on openness They remain focused on personal business And the mistakes grow relentless Entering late to be rebellious But noones jealous Both with their time selfish They've mastered keeping their hands and bodies to themselves These chapters reaching lands where everybodies love shelved And with no antidote to break this spell It works its magic from twelve back to twelve

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    Jefferson Avatar Sha'ntez Jefferson Date: 10/24/2012 11:36:00 AM Block poet from commenting on your poetry

    This is called The spell life cast on relationships wrote it a few months back seemed to fit ,your blogs and poems are very touching I can feel ur pain went through a very similar situation not long ago left a comment on ur justifiable thoughts poem.

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6/20/2014Nightmare MiseryFree versedeep,feelings,poetry,
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1/12/2014Damage ScreamsFree verselove hurts,voice,writing,
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6/23/2013I refuse to dropFree versecreation,deep,emotions,fa
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11/7/2012This touching feeling, is youFree verselove,uplifting,me,
10/31/2012Broken soulLight Poetryconfusion,life,lost love,
10/31/2012My rest placeLight Poetryloss,sad,
10/27/2012I don't remember or craveFree versehistory,husband,loss,love
10/27/2012My bamboozle writeFree verseconfusion,lost love,heart
10/27/2012In the twilightFree verseconfusion,life,sad,me,me,
10/24/2012Everything went blackLight Poetryfantasy,imagination,
10/24/2012Mommy is right here, no fearFree verselife,mother,sad,me,me,
10/24/2012Dreams come true , without youFree verselife,lost love,space,love
10/24/2012Only his, unjustifiable thoughtsFree verselost love,
10/24/2012Thy gift is right hereLight Poetrylove,passion,peace,
10/17/2012My BearLight Poetrylove,me,me,
10/14/2012Pack and leaveFree verseinspirational,lost love,m
10/14/2012Effort come stand with meFree verseimagination,inspirational
10/14/2012A wrongfully incarcerated brotherFree versebrother,history,sister,me
10/12/2012Dear I don't knowFree verseconfusion,loss,sad,me,
10/12/2012Bash in mirrors, now I seeLight Poetryimagination,life,

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