Thank you to one and all for your kind comments. I am so touched by your words and understanding.
As someone who has suffered loss, I feel it is best to remove this poem at this time, in consideration for a Souper and her family who have had their hearts broken.
When a child is lost, two things inflict pain more than anything else, one, hearing of another parent losing a child, second, seemily indifferent joy when you are in agony.
Rejoice with those who rejoice;
mourn with those who mourn.