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Blog Posted:2/8/2017 7:17:00 AM

What is retirement? Is it just a new stage in your busy life or is it the end of your life as you know it?

I am retiring this Spring and have mixed feelings. There is a feeling of excitement because I can now sleep in or enjoy my coffee in a more relaxed way. There is also a feeling of dread. What am I to do with my time?

I have worked for 47 years and I think it is hard to stop that frame of mind right away. It feels a bit like losing a loved one so hopefully time will ease the pain. I loved working or maybe I just got used to working so I thought I loved it. My present job keeps me motivated and is very social so I will miss that part of going to work daily.

What to do?

I chose to retire in the Spring so I would have the summer ahead of me. My favorite time of the year is Spring, full of hope and freshness. My husband passed away a few years ago so it is just me at home in our house now. I am very healthy and fit so will spend more time doing outside work. Time with my grandkids is always special and I enjoy my family.

No matter what I decide to do or not to do I have my mind made up that it is time. I would not want to be the person who stayed too long or started making mistakes. I will leave when I am able to do other things. This is a huge change but an exciting one and I plan to be darn good at it.

To New Beginnings!



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Date: 2/22/2017 7:55:00 PM
"I plan to be darn good at it." Ha! That's great, Betty. : ) There is an enormous range of ways in which we all approach life, and I think that being happy is one of the surest indicators of "genius" of all.
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Date: 2/8/2017 5:02:00 PM
Betty, I would have opposite feelings from you, If and when my time to retire comes, I will LOVE it because I never have time to do all the things I am wanting to do. I enjoy my job but not so much that I wouldn't mind quitting. The thing that I am personally dreading is not being able to retire. My money will be small and not sure how my husband and I will make it unless we do side jobs. Uggggg. All because I never worked for the public school system with retirement benefits.
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Betty Bateson
Date: 2/9/2017 8:56:00 AM
I am a very positive person and I don't need a lot to retire on. I am looking forward to spending more time with friends and family. Time to kick back and enjoy the people in my life.
Date: 2/8/2017 8:58:00 AM
enjoy your retirement , and the free time my brother could not way up how he had time to go work once he retired , get busy doing the things you love stephen
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Betty Bateson
Date: 2/9/2017 8:58:00 AM
I already have friends asking me to do things.

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