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I WAS ME


First I was me,

Selfish as can be,

Wanting everything from A to Z

And wanting it all for me.


Then I became we,

A part of an us.

I learned to share, give and take

I learned how to trust.


Next I was you,

Believe me it's true.

I would rather give than receive,

It was you I wanted to please.


Now I am them,

A family man.

Giving my children,

All that I can.


If you look real close,

It is easy to see,

I am older and wiser,

And no longer a me.





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If I Could Enter My Own Contest - Walk A Mile In Her Shoes

Blog Posted by Joe Flach: 3/12/2014 12:27:00 PM

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Date: 3/13/2014 1:51:00 PM
Really beautiful and touching Joe...I was abused myself for several years in a relationship that I was in.I was so in love with him that I blamed myself for every punch or putdown.Sometimes the mental abuse is worse because it has more lasting affects. But I finally wised up and got away from this jerk.Over the years I have healed and I would never go there again.Hope I can write something worthy for your contest .
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Date: 3/13/2014 5:46:00 PM
Thanks, Deb. I think there is a whole sorority of women (and men, too) who share your plight. It is a topic that we sometimes turn a blind eye and deaf ear to. For people to see individuals like yourself who have been through the fire and come out strong, beautiful and healthy - I think it can help. Thanks for your response and sharing your story. Joe
Date: 3/12/2014 5:53:00 PM
Joe, I will forever see you as Joe Cool, now. Thank you for this. I was one of those gals... long, long ago. Only two years of that, not a lifetime.. and the thing is once he convinces you the first time, to stay, it was a mistake, you are his reason for living, his passion, he just lost it for a minute, groveling, weeping at your feet.. and you can't believe you hear yourself say, yes, I'll stay. I'll forgive you... then... you feel a sense of shame, of stupidity, it becomes a secret you share, you are now a coward, a poster child for pathetic.. and now he has another weapon. He knows "you" feel more guilty than he did... good poem, Joe. I got away. But he did stalk me, for months after...
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Date: 3/12/2014 6:37:00 PM
Cyndi, unfortunately, there are many others who share this story - and some for much longer than you had to suffer. This is bullying at its worse and something that I find hard to tolerate. I am glad you found the courage to make a change.
Date: 3/12/2014 4:45:00 PM
ill surely give this a shot, joe... i volunteer as a counselor for women's rights.. thank you and hugggs!.. grrreat work!
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Date: 3/12/2014 6:35:00 PM
No problem, Nette. It's the least I can do for all the good that women have done for me over the years.

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