Obstinance Poems | Examples


List of Member Poems

Conflicting Beliefs

We never engaged in the pleasure of love-making,
they banned us from giving embraces and kisses:
how belief shaped the naiveness of our minds... 
making us fear and keep us from sweet giving!

We longed to tremble, giving a passionate kiss,
we looked around and we saw stern, watchful eyes;
sweetness slipped out of thoughts, turning to bitterness...
they controlled us to impose the strict rules of obstinance!

We never dreamed of ecstasy, always showing a longing  
for becoming one soul anchored by nightly loud moans;
we were deprived of sexual thoughts, never drifting
and feeling free from glances: religion bans and kills! 

We were lonelier than children reading bed-time stories,
not frolicking romance to incite desire and awareness;
we missed on our youth for their concept of shining grace:
wasn't sex created by God to increase the Human race?

The Flipside

"The Flipside" 

We write 
our hearts out

we pull 
the catch back in

slowly, 
they read,

we think, 
too fast

swallowed 
in the hollowed out

hallowed hearts measured 
ounce per ounce

we write 
our hearts out

stamping footprints
obstinance turning 

ourselves
inside, out

stone washing
ourselves 

inside 
out 

written on
lines

wrung out,
expelled 

pegged left
hanging

right
left
without

missives, 
no doubt

on the flip side
of eternity

gravity 
grounds us

toes
touch the ground 

neck and face
upwards 

downwards,

still life
breathing

eyes watching, 
reading, waiting

the mystery
we believe,

or, we sit still 
debating

the earthly 
volume 

a boulder 
pulley drawn

backwards 
forwards
backwards

in quarters
we are quartered

like poetry
we are, 

washed 
in clouds

inside
out,

we are
on the 

flipside ;

waiting

(LadyLabyrinth / 2023)

Sex Ed Failures

Watching the clock I'm wary of time,
listening to words that mean nothing to me

If I could do better and take useful notes,
then maybe the lesson I could finally agree

It's no good to be different in Sex Ed,
what if I don't plan to date a man?

They don't talk of subjects I care of at all,
and frankly, I'm not really a fan

My BSF, only 16, calls in a panic,
within herself lies an unwanted child

Told to save herself she didn't know,
her late childhood is now defiled

These problems seem unique,
but don't be obstinance

As our schools only teach us abstinence


Unrestrained Hatred

I have often seen perfidious faces
wandering through dark hallways
without showing any human resemblance:
ah, is it envy, ah is it jealousy;
or an unquenchable absurdity
that doesn't admit their open obstinance? 

Unrestrained hate can turn us into unrecognizable monsters,
and these demons must carry out the plotted massacres
to be satisfied with the vengeful evil inflicted upon the strollers,
no pity is shown while the flesh gurgles with blood and shivers! 

What should be the right penalty? Face death, or remain chained?
Before pulling the trigger: are we aware of the consequences? 
Each person is responsible for their behavior: it's an ample hatred 
never quenched by vengeance to feed its atrocious thoughts! 

Unrestrained hatred can turn us into unrecognizable monsters,
who loves others never commits horrible acts of madness;
hey, do you love your neighbors? Hey, do you say, " Good Morning "
to them and wish them joy through the day with a happy feeling?

Premium Member Trixie My Muse Is Obstinate

Winged horses could not get me to do that 
She says to me with her nose stuck up.
She can be prissy when she wants to be.

Trixie is in obstinate mode
I try to reason with her 
But I am no match
For this particular strand of my imagination

Two seconds later she rides off  to the Netherlands 
On the back of a white winged horse 
I resist giving her a friendly wave
Where do you think she learned obstinance?

Overgrown Weeds

Spring is here as well as the weeds,
they are growing profusely all over,
thinking about weeding the front garden,
it means bending down and yanking,
as they scream and are chanting.

Determination is my mood as I pull,
each time I approach them they cringe,
not wanting to be the next victim,
clearing one spot I discover more,
making this project quite a chore.

Some have pretty flowers as a subterfuge,
a deceit so they will last all summer long,
stubborn roots are buried and embedded,
requiring a trowel to dig into their obstinance,
a way to kill overgrown weeds on continuance.


Doctor's Orders

We learn to take our medicine
No matter what the taste
And follow doctor's orders,
Though uncomfortable, post haste.

Yet children have to be convinced,
For if the flavor's vile, 
They'll try their best to fight it 
Using obstinance and guile.

Perhaps a bit of bribery
Or trickiness might work,
For medical instructions
Aren't ones we ought to shirk.

So we must do what we must do
To get that dosage down, 
Despite the knowledge we're the cause
Of grimace, grouse or frown.

The Imprisoned Soul

In the castle of flesh and bones, 
Held by the chains of antagonism,
She dreamt of freedom,
For he was who she was yearning.

On the door stood guard arrogance,
"I'm the best, you can't escape" he said,
She denied and he grew stronger,
What fed him ? Her ignorance.
He was defeated when she said,
"Yes you are",
Who was she ? Modesty.

Now who blocked her way was obstinance,
She begged him as he stood tall,
She wasn't ready to pay penance,
He didn't budge, he was tenacity after all.
Who came to her resque was compliance,
To escape, she had to make the call.

Her last nemisis was "Ego the dragon",
"You shall burn in the fire of humility" he said.
She was baffled as he flew higher,
She then said "what a liar!,
If humility was fire, 
You yourself breathe fire".

The battle was now won,
To hold her back there were none,
With clouds she had to run,
Along the everlasting sun.

Obstinance

Always there
You never disappear
Staying close
I feel you when you’re near

I am alone 
no matter if you’re there
For few will know
The pain I have to bear

Your reassurances are void
I have seen you without such a ploy
Trust is limited
No reliance in it

I pray that you’re gone 
But I know you’ll always reappear
For this heart
Always aches when you’re gone

Premium Member Galing Winds

galing winds
wintry howling obstinance
~ canine ears perked 



AP: Honorable Mention 2026

Submitted on April 14, 2018 for contest HAIKU, NO TITLES, THEME NATURE sponsored by MICK TALBOT  -  RANKED 3RD

If You Believe

Poet took a high-falutin' leap of faith,
   amidst a big swig of moonbeams
   dabbling toes beyond starry galaxies
Milky Way spun in translations
    Pluto still looked oddly perplexed,
Big Dipper gave a smart **** grimace
    wondering what the hell was
   going on 'neath the stratosphere
   when human beings can't keep 
  their heads 'neath ambiguous clouds
        feet  firmly planted ground level, 
delving lofty heaven's bliss
     escaping the wrath of hell's fire,
  aggrandizing endless poesy that
absorbs sparks of a universal desire
        never phasing sun's obstinance, 
   but, if you believe in poetry
      there's no telling where 
        boundless skies will surrender

...and the man in the moon tilted on his axis in a
    backward's spiral and unabashedly winked

The Loneliness of Together

This life has become unbearable
Two ships passing in the night
For there is no greater loneliness
Than the loneliness of together

How two people can desecrate
Each other with such brutality
Two lives torn into tatters
Addicted as we, both to pain

It is easy to complain of suffering
To wallow in the agony
Hearts that beat so separate
Never again to beat as one

Dreamed it would be different
Not hollow, empty and dank
Not the life mapped by myself
Never thought I wanted this

There is no end to the bitterness
Those circles spin round and around
Trapped in a life so mundane
Feels there is no way out

There is still a part that hopes
Of a clear sky on a clearer day 
To wrestle on with obstinance
Until I allow me to be me again

Fully Equipped

I’ve already packed
Everything you need
For your trip, Little One.
“Yes,” she said,
“But I’ve never been 
To Chicago before,
And I just might need
My old hairbrush
And this book I used to like,
And…” it all went
Into her backpack

I smiled then
And again later
As we walked the long concourse.
Steps faltered
And tears of fatigue flowed
Down my daughter’s face
Until a loving elder brother
Took the unnecessary burden
So we all 
Could make our plane.

I shoulder my own
Unwieldy baggage,
And trudge with faltering step,
Tears of frustration 
And fatigue 
Rolling down my face.

I fail to acknowledge
That Father has sent me
Already fully equipped,
And I’m reluctant to release
My unnecessary burden
To the Brother who
Would carry it for me.
And in my obstinance
I just might miss 
My flight!

Premium Member The Nature of Poetic Change

I aspire for a flight of magnificence 
though the words at times reek of innocence.
Yet striving to create a renaissance 
in form which will not require penitence.
I boast of overcoming pestilence
in manipulating verbal reticence
to overcome loathing of quiescence,
which in a sense is the essence
of any poem of mental brilliance. 
Aspiring to poems that soar in evanescence,
a luminescence of fluorescence in abundance.
The presence of acquiescence a deterrence 
to obsolescence of obeisance in appearance.
The absence of pseudo credence and conformance
to the quintessence of acceptance of senescence,
in poetry, assures defiance of decadence,
and a deterrence of annoyance in articulence.
Yet the arrogance of old heads holds coalescence,
the decidence of some form’s discontinuance.
The annoyance and inconvenience of their defiance,
keeps their belligerence in convalescence.
Their exaserbescence akin to adolescence 
in nature, they think obstinance is a virtuence. 

© Sept 19 2010  Charles Henderson 

4 th in John's Free verse contest

Looking for the formal definition, structure, and history of this poetry form? Visit the Poetry Dictionary entry below. Then return to explore how PoetrySoup members bring the form to life through their own poems.

Get a Premium Membership
Turn off ads, get more exposure for your poetry, and get more features with a Premium Membership.
Book: Diverse Voices: The Poetry of Human Rights and the Pursuit of Peace