What Some Woman Want

We all have different ideas about the kind of life that we want to live,some of us are goal orientated,virtually making it impossible for us to be in a relationship with someone without ever feeling like we are wasting valuable time and we can never make time for the person we are dating. And then sadly we become bad people,we become the black sheep's of society because reality is,we will probably never get married or have children(so what??) I don't want children nor do I want a husband,I have different agendas about how I want my life to be structured so please explain to me why I can't do this without having to explain my intentions to the world,after all they are mine,nobody else's so there's literally no need for anybody else to understand this. This idea that woman cannot be strong without another person who is male is not true,we do not need a relationship to be strong,we rather need to be comfortable in our own skin and be infinite with that comfortability so that by any chance,if it happens and we hit the floor,the love that we have for ourselves will not allow for us to give up on these goals. Society and marriage,who are you to measure my growth or anything else based on something that could end so easily,something indefinite like marriage,I am a success not because I am married but because I,in my being and capable of being by myself,growing myself,and reaching the goals that I want to reach.