The Bridge To My Heart

god has taught me so much on how to view love, and lean in towards relationships, love is not just a feeling, it's words put into action, and it's the selfless love we give, that builds up bonds of friendship, to determine down the road, if a commitment could be given, the honor and respect of the friendship then proceeds your trust, and then love is automatically driven, your not thinking of yourself, or what you can gain, you don't think of your own selfish needs, you want to give of your heart, and share from your soul, and immediate actions then proceed, no physical affection can amount to what's given from the heart, sex and kisses can tell u lies, for if attraction leads you into premature sex, it can deceive you with your eyes, you then realize your intentions were selfish, you didn't protect yourself or your potential mate's heart, you were to eager and impatient to save that special moment, and you will never finish what you first wanted to start, your sexual desires and needs will not have mattered when your taking your final breath, so why waste time with meaningless gratification, if you will have no use for it in the end, we feed our bodies food and water to keep us well-nourished, it is our bodies fuel, when our bodies die, what's left is our spirits, and it's important they rise and are full, what good is your spirit, if your body will eventually wither and go, and what is left of you amounts to nothing, you put no emphasis on allowing god to feed your spirit while you were here on this earth, and now you wished you had fed it something, you took advantage of all the love that others offered to give, and went ahead with your own selfish needs, you missed out on the opportunity that you could have awesomely had, while god was still diligently planting that seed, you've been constintly hurt, you gave up on love all together, because you got sick of all the abuse, so you turned your eyes to the world's view of self-gratifying love, nothing feels left, and now satans amused, he tricked you into believing there's no one left on this earth that could ever give u more, i will tell you once more, if you focus your full attention on god, there's much more love for you in store. recommended reading: i kissed dating goodbye, by josh harris. god has changed my whole perspective, i will never approach relationships in the same way since i've read this.