Excuse me friend,
It's a life time journey
That calls for a life time of preparation
Because the terms and the time
Of your preparation for 'IT'
Will determine your performance in 'IT'.
If you are not well fortified for responsibilities
(responsible-abilities and not liabilities)
You should not be presented for 'IT'.
What is 'IT' i guess you ask?
MARRIAGE of course!
May i remind you that a major capacity
Required to bear that responsibility (ies)
Is responsible ability (ies)
Then, you can expect the reality
Which is a premium of right attitude
On real or right activity (ies).
It's a good policy and
you need not alter your idiosyncray (ies).