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Nursing Home Blues

Nursing Home Blues I sent mother to a nursing home, she didn´t want to go but I ignored her wishes, we often do that when concerning old people, we say it is for their own good, but the truth is I didn´t know what else to do. Mother became quite rebellious they called me from the home she was throwing food about and demanded, when she evacuated, that an assistant come and dry her bum. Wanted to go home, there was no home she had lived in a rented flat and someone else lived there. When she knew she she felt betrayed, her silence was damning. She stopped eating, gaunt, a skeleton before death came as a relief. Now that I´m old too families telling me I should not ride on my scooter in case I might fall off…like should I care.

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Date: 6/29/2012 8:55:00 AM
Jan -- Matched my own story almost exactly. The first time I visited her (next day) she grabbed my hands and said "You've got to get me out of here." She was too sick to stay with us any longer; but I'm guilty as hell. The nurses told me she threw the silverware and when I mentioned it to her, she said "Who would do a thing like that?" I almost feel like I killed her. Ride that scooter but wear quilted clothes. love, Kathy
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Jan Oskar Hansen
Date: 6/29/2012 9:05:00 AM
well it was a har time and the guilt lingers
Date: 6/28/2012 4:31:00 PM
very powerful and poignant. anyone who's gone through what you have can relate - it's all so sad! ride on!
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Jan Oskar Hansen
Date: 6/29/2012 9:05:00 AM
thank you I will

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