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Dedicated To My Amazing Mum

It was in November 2009 when I got the call To say that you had had a tiny little fall ‘Don’t worry’ said Dad; she will be ok Oh how I remember so vividly that dreadful day Dad said it was only a little lump And into the taxi home they would jump But it was in the hospital bed that you did lay And you stayed there for many a long day We dashed to the hospital and went to the ward Out of my eyes silent tears poured Your face so bruised and misshapen My mum as you once were had been taken They told us you had two bleeds on your brain And since then life for us all has never been the same For over three months you were away Sometimes I wish you hadn’t made it – a dreadful thing to say For you now have dementia and are nearly blind How can a life once so rich and full now be so unkind? You get so angry and frustrated Dear old dad gets so berated Oh how I wish I could turn back time to that day And stop you from falling and your mind going away But I am lucky to have my dear old mum And I cherish the memories when we used to have fun I am so lucky to still have you both; you really are amazing Dad looks after you tirelessly and is rarely complaining I try my best to help out and give him a little break For I know one day you will be gone and then my heart will ache I look back on the past and when your life was so full Talking books now keep you occupied and stop your life being so dull Writing is one thing enjoyed so much and you can no longer do You hanker for the past and it really frustrates you You are 91 years old now and dad is 90 this year We will hold a little party for him, I hold you both so dear It makes your day to have friends and family close by And I will be here for you both until the day you die.

Copyright © | Year Posted 2014




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Date: 4/6/2015 6:14:00 PM
Jan, this is a sad, yet wonderfully penned piece of poetry. Yours parents are so very lucky, to have such a wonderful daughter like you. Well done. :O) Keep up with the great work. Keep on penning. Thank you so very much for sharing your wonderful and creative talents with us. We all truly appreciate it. A 7. *S* Cynthia
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Cynthia Jones
Date: 4/13/2015 12:35:00 PM
Jan, I am so very sorry to hear of your father's passing my friend. My heart goes out to you my friend. ~HUGS~ *S* Cynthia
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Jan Allison
Date: 4/6/2015 6:25:00 PM
My father passed away in february after a battle with terminal cancer - mum has now moved into a care home - it was impossible to let her remain at home without 24 hour assistance and the cost of that was horrendous - i still see her every day and we stick to the routine she had when she was at home - have the best of both worlds and i know she is safe:-) hugs jan xx
Date: 1/24/2015 11:05:00 PM
Hi Jan, A lovely poem about your mum. And I know no matter what happens you will always love her and support her. I still remember your words from one of your poems, daughter mother wife. And I know you give everything you have to each. Love Shane xxx
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Shane Cooper
Date: 1/25/2015 4:23:00 AM
That is all a part of you. Your poetry is a reflection of your life
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Jan Allison
Date: 1/25/2015 4:10:00 AM
I try Shane but sometimes I just need to be 'me':-) Hugs Jan xx
Date: 3/16/2014 11:42:00 AM
Such a lovely ,lovely poem.As the saying goes..Nobody is like mum.Yours verses touched me deeply.
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Jan Allison
Date: 3/16/2014 11:56:00 AM
Just wish I could wave my magic wand and turn back time but sadly that is never going to happen. i cherish the fact I still have them both - I'm very lucky xxx Jan
Date: 3/11/2014 11:51:00 PM
Oh! I do love that poem Jan, reminds me so much of my mum who I might add turns 96 in May and still going strong, can't walk but still has her mind and as for falling over, guess what I did yesterday, came out of the dentist and fell flat on my face so I am black and blue but hopefully I will heal. You are so lucky to still have your Dad as well, beautiful poem Jan, I can relate..............Vera.................
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Jan Allison
Date: 3/12/2014 5:35:00 AM
Thanks Vera for the lovely comment. I do hope the bruises and pain fades quickly - a visit to the dentist can be traumatic enough without that happening! Am so lucky to have them both. Mum's great great aunt lived to 111 and 121 days and was in the Guinness book of records so she has longevity in her genes bless her. Poor dad has a lot to put up with her but I am so lucky to have them xxx
Date: 3/2/2014 8:19:00 PM
aww sweets just want to hug you
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Quinlan Reardon-Davis
Date: 3/3/2014 8:43:00 AM
Believe me its me thats inspired by so many of you I am just an average guy doing what I do
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Jan Allison
Date: 3/3/2014 1:11:00 AM
Thanks Quin I don't know how I'd have coped with my life without your support xxx You inspire so many people on chat we are truly blessed to have you Jan xxxx
Date: 2/28/2014 3:09:00 AM
Fighting back the tears. A very emotional write.
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Jan Allison
Date: 2/28/2014 4:27:00 AM
aww thank you for taking time to read it Rob. I think as mum had appointment with the memory clinic yesterday it was in my mind. jan x
Date: 2/27/2014 1:40:00 PM
You have made me cry........... A very well written poem,so tenderly put. xxx Big Hugs xxx
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Jan Allison
Date: 2/27/2014 1:53:00 PM
Seems to be having that effect on others too Jenny. I so wish I could turn back time and have her the way she used to be but sadly I know that is never to happen and I cherish the memories I had and try my best to give dad a break. Jan xxx
Date: 2/27/2014 3:31:00 AM
- A tear rolls on my cheek - A fantastic well written poem Jan - The memories come back - three years ago my mother died - healthy one day - and died the next day (only 75 years) - my father who is ill (cancer, COPD, diabetic, no balance .... helpless) - he will be 80 years next month. - We are three siblings ... but no one will help him (just me - and he takes up a lot of my free time.) - Life can be unfair!! - oxox // Anne-Lise :)
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Jan Allison
Date: 2/27/2014 5:34:00 AM
Aww thank you for the lovely comment. It is so hard but we can only try. My dad had almost the same issues as your dad - he doesnt have the COPD but has heart troubles diabetes and has had cancer. we are trying to get someone to come in just to chat to mum keep her occupied give dad a break. love and hugs Jan xx
Date: 2/27/2014 1:22:00 AM
That's beautiful!!Asavvy1
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Jan Allison
Date: 2/27/2014 2:11:00 AM
Thanks Jared I'm truly blessed to have them both still Jan x

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