It used to be a man and a woman would meet. If they were single and liked one another then marriage would soon follow. Their whole lives they would spend learning about each other. Now a whole range of questions in the stupidest language are asked: What does he do for money? Does she have baggage? What are their issues? Is she ready for that? What religion is he? Does he hold the door open? Do they know who they really are? No wonder lasting relationships are at an all time low.