Habits

HABITS

We wake up in the morning,
Our memory, collecting storing,
The same data over, and over again,	
It becomes entrenched – a habit is due,
What triggers habits, just a simple cue!
We pass a highway that we know well
And put our car into cruise mode, swell,
This is routine, and we follow this road
For there is a reward, 
We will shortly arrive at a place,
To which we associate a particular face,
And we store this for it feels good,	
We now have adopted a habit,
That’s understood!
A repetitive gym advert 
On TV, is yet another cue,
We lace up our sneakers, lay out our
Clothes, kiss husband goodbye
So long Hugh!
This has become routine,
For in a week or two
Our reward is due,
We will feel bran new
When we stand on our scale,
Which now tells a new tale!
A few more kilos you will
Have shed, we love this new
Routine, wow it is working
And without even shirking,
One gym lesson, we love the reward,
We once hated gym,
Now we never get bored,
And besides feeling healthy
We make our lives lengthy. 
But some habits beware, 
Cause strain, so refrain,
For these habits try to engulf 
Us with guilt,
But our willpower will
Overpower guilt, if well built,
Willpower is the conscious mind,
And alerts us if we intend,
To be unkind,
So hurrah for the conscious,
We heartily cheer,
But the unconscious is
What brought us here,
To crossroads between the two,	
Everyone differs in their view.
We must therefore 
First think everything through,
For we adopt habits by
Storing more information,
And progressively throughout,
Each generation,
Embrace many a new habit,
But sometimes
Just do not grab it!
Psychiatrists forge forward 
What a dilemma,
To find answers, neither
Altered or awkward!


Wrote this poem after having read he Power of HABIT by Charles Duhigg.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2019

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Callus Avatar
April 22, 2019 at 8:04 AM
Thanks for an most enjoyable poem, Jenny! Many people are in the habit of acquiring new habits, and eventually cannot cope with any of them! I have few or hardly any habits, one of them being a daily fast walk. ~ Warm regards & hugs // paul
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April 22, 2019 at 12:26 PM
What wonderful walks you must have in Malta - Very healthy hobby - I have two - definitely poetry, and yoga twice a week for the last 7 years . Thank-you for a lovely comment. Warm regards and hugs, Jennifer.
De Beaulieu Avatar
April 21, 2019 at 8:06 AM
Hello Jennifer Proxenos, we atr all creatures of habits. Everyone has their own habits and ways of doing things. Have a nice day my friend.
Proxenos Avatar
April 22, 2019 at 2:09 AM
Hi Darlene hope you relax an enjoy Easter Monday, before the hustle and bustle of life we join again tomorrow - I enjoy a break but more enjoyable is the habit of routine. Thank you for your visit and comment. Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Krutsinger Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 1:29 AM
"Each season doing its very Own unique thing Responsible for this work of art, And time" So well done!
Proxenos Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 6:09 AM
Thank you Caren, so nice to have you visit - missed you. Love and poetry hugs, Jennifer
Lamoureux Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 12:46 AM
I read this one twice, I was careful not to read it three times for fear that it might be habit forming. This was a fun read.
Proxenos Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 6:07 AM
Ha Ha - that's funny Richard - Happy that it tickled your fancy! Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Canerdy Avatar
April 19, 2019 at 1:56 PM
Yes, we do program ourselves. We have good habits and bad. Good job detailing how we have that internal need to schedule, Jennifer. Janice
Proxenos Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 6:05 AM
Thanks for a very relevant comment Janice - yes bad habits are easy to fall into, whereas good habits need willpower. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
May Avatar
April 18, 2019 at 8:10 PM
We program in our habits and sometimes habits become addicting...Nicely expressed Jennifer...
Proxenos Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 5:59 AM
They absolutely do - and an addiction is extremely hard to break. Thank-you for a lovely comment Joseph. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Laurie Avatar
April 18, 2019 at 6:33 PM
Hello Jennifer … great subject for your verse. You have cornered every one of us. I often think about the difference between habit and addiction for example smokers I know - some appear to be addicted, but some to smoke because of a habit, but not every smoking, I don't really know - another gem from you Jennifer - Lindsay
Proxenos Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 5:56 AM
Thank you Lindsay for an awesome comment - i think some people start drinking or smoking, or taking drugs as a social thing, which becomes a habit, and in time an addiction - very sad - Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Rodrigues Avatar
April 18, 2019 at 5:30 PM
I like it, Jennifer!
Proxenos Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 5:48 AM
Thank-you Kim, it just annoys me when people dont even care when they know, they are adopting a bad habit. Thank you for your visit, Love and hugs, Jennifer.
Kiser Avatar
April 18, 2019 at 3:35 PM
It's funny how we change over the years; things we hated as a kid become so much more important when we're older. If only we had that foresight as kids...well penned.
Proxenos Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 5:45 AM
You have made a seriously correct point here! But what about the adults that are for example, are dying of cancer and still smoke? Or how did some adults become alcoholics - bad habits no will power, good habits have willpower. Thanks for a cool comment MLK. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Pandit Avatar
April 18, 2019 at 3:14 PM
Enjoyed this insight you shared with us on power of habits..may be others will follow your lead to the gym. Kudos Jennifer for thinking about themes that I would find hard to write about.
Proxenos Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 5:36 AM
Thank you for your kind words Vijay - I truly appreciate your support. Actually, the gym was just for the poem but i do go to yoga twice a week which I love. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
La France Avatar
April 18, 2019 at 3:02 PM
Jennifer, great poem, new habits are hard to get used to but once they become routine as in exercising then you are hooked and they become the new you ~
Proxenos Avatar
April 20, 2019 at 5:32 AM
Absolutely Dear Heart, but then you also have the other side of the spectrum, when youngsters become habitual drug abusers. Life is like that in whatever, love, faith, health, weather - I could go on for ever, each aspect of life has its goo and bad habits. Thank-you for visiting - cool. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Roper Avatar
April 18, 2019 at 12:18 PM
Habits are always in my life since up at dawn till night But the scales always lie Nice you’ve started to exercise every day is a very good thing. My exercise is walking the dog four or five times a day so, I figure a put in a mile a day. My life might make a bigger change next week I hope babysitting my 8-month-old grandson that is the carbon copy of his dad and grandpa :) I am all excited. Happy Easter. Hugs Eve
Proxenos Avatar
April 18, 2019 at 12:49 PM
Thank-you for a great comment Eve, walking the dog is one of the healthiest habits I could ever think of! Babysitting your 8 month old grandson, what a privilege and absolute joy - a Blessed Easter dear Eve. Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Curtis Avatar
April 16, 2019 at 7:49 AM
Why are good habits are hard to procure and easy to lose and bad habits are easy to maintain and hard to kick. Thanks Jen for the insight here. I think I'll make reading your work ....a habit GB
Proxenos Avatar
April 16, 2019 at 8:11 AM
Good point and thinking Jerry - Thank - you, I'll be visiting your page shortly. Looking forward to your comments after you have read more of my poems. Poetry Hugs, Jennifer!
Kiser Avatar
April 15, 2019 at 8:31 PM
It really is powerful.
Proxenos Avatar
April 16, 2019 at 1:04 AM
Habits can be powerful MLK and we sometimes adopt them without even realizing the are getting better or worse, it is when we realize this, that we make a conscious choice! Thanks for you visit MLK and a blessed Easter to you and your family. Blessings, Jennifer.
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April 15, 2019 at 1:00 PM
Fine write Jenny, great imagery and insightful thought too. Habits are indeed powerful. Blessings always,Gordon
Proxenos Avatar
April 15, 2019 at 1:50 PM
A blessed Easter to you and your family - hugs Jenny.
Proxenos Avatar
April 15, 2019 at 1:49 PM
Thank-you Gordon - they are indeed and can sometimes turn nasty! Poetry hugs. Jennifer.
Beilschmidt Sr. Avatar
April 15, 2019 at 6:53 AM
'So long Hugh' I like that. Poetic license or hubby? A really great poem on this topic of habits. yours, Allen
Proxenos Avatar
April 15, 2019 at 11:29 AM
Hi Allen, Poetic Licence it is! Thank you for a wonderful comment, had written this poem some time ago, but it needed some TLC, Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Lindley Avatar
April 14, 2019 at 7:26 AM
I am blessed to have had a fantastic teacher that introduced me to poetry when I was 11 years old. Then reading poetry and a few months later writing poetry became one of my lifelong habits. Your poem shines with its depths, insight profundity, style and message .. A fav..
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April 14, 2019 at 3:17 PM
Thank-you Robert, your comment is breathtaking, I started writing when I was 16, but sadly had no tutoring. I had a couple of long breaks from poetry but have always bounced back more determined than ever to write poems for the rest of my life. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Marcum Wong Avatar
April 14, 2019 at 6:08 AM
My habit has become poetry...but it is a good one Jennifer. This lyrical poem is so well-written and delight to read! : )
Proxenos Avatar
April 14, 2019 at 7:10 AM
Thank-you Connie, poetry is mine also. We all sometimes lapse into a habit however, that is of no use, but has become routine, without any reward! Blessings and poetry hugs, Jennifer.
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April 14, 2019 at 4:55 AM
A meticulous rendition of the blessings and negative aspects of habits! You have a genuine flair in wrapping up your profound thoughts into beautiful poetry! I'm not surprised, soul sister.. love and hugs dear Jenny..
Proxenos Avatar
April 14, 2019 at 7:06 AM
Besma my dear friend, are you back? Thank you, I have missed seeing you, and your wonderful poetry back on poetry soup! Hope you are well - your comments are always so loving and thoughtful. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Cunningham Avatar
April 13, 2019 at 4:07 PM
Life is like that sometimes and we feel daily chores are a habit. It's always best to change your approach sometimes or you will get stuck in a rut. Tom.
Proxenos Avatar
April 14, 2019 at 2:28 AM
And if you get stuck in a rut with daily chores , they become a bind and you eventually dislike what you do so yes, I agree with you, vary your chores, or add something new to them . Perhaps domestic help who will wear long black, stockings and a short skirt with a frilly white frilly apron and cap perched on her head with a bunch of flowing hair, but best she doesn't only speak Spanish! ha, ha, ha, just a suggestion, teasing you Tom. Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Mchattie Avatar
April 13, 2019 at 1:49 PM
Some people say if you do something for 30 days it becomes a habit. I am living proof that it is not true. Great poem. Have a good day.
Romios Avatar
April 19, 2019 at 8:22 PM
David..I have habits. But consider none bad,no destructive habits allowed. I want to live long. I don't have a position on habits until I notice one is running my life. I do my best to stop being perfect...that's the worst habit))) like,,who cares?? Nobody. LOL. Panagiota
Proxenos Avatar
April 13, 2019 at 2:13 PM
Thanks David, your comment is really thought provoking - thanks for the visit - a peaceful and wonderful Easter to you and yours. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Andresen Avatar
April 13, 2019 at 1:48 PM
- Most people like to try new things, but it is very difficult to change habits:) - Great writing my friend Jenny :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
Proxenos Avatar
April 13, 2019 at 2:10 PM
I agree, but I would think that the younger one is, the more adaptable they are to adopting habits, unfortunately some bad as well as good! Thank you Sunshine Smile - you always send rays of sunshine when you visit! Poetry hugs, Jennifer
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