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HABITS We wake up in the morning, Our memory, collecting storing, The same data over, and over again, It becomes entrenched – a habit is due, What triggers habits, just a simple cue! We pass a highway that we know well And put our car into cruise mode, swell, This is routine, and we follow this road For there is a reward, We will shortly arrive at a place, To which we associate a particular face, And we store this for it feels good, We now have adopted a habit, That’s understood! A repetitive gym advert On TV, is yet another cue, We lace up our sneakers, lay out our Clothes, kiss husband goodbye So long Hugh! This has become routine, For in a week or two Our reward is due, We will feel bran new When we stand on our scale, Which now tells a new tale! A few more kilos you will Have shed, we love this new Routine, wow it is working And without even shirking, One gym lesson, we love the reward, We once hated gym, Now we never get bored, And besides feeling healthy We make our lives lengthy. But some habits beware, Cause strain, so refrain, For these habits try to engulf Us with guilt, But our willpower will Overpower guilt, if well built, Willpower is the conscious mind, And alerts us if we intend, To be unkind, So hurrah for the conscious, We heartily cheer, But the unconscious is What brought us here, To crossroads between the two, Everyone differs in their view. We must therefore First think everything through, For we adopt habits by Storing more information, And progressively throughout, Each generation, Embrace many a new habit, But sometimes Just do not grab it! Psychiatrists forge forward What a dilemma, To find answers, neither Altered or awkward! Wrote this poem after having read he Power of HABIT by Charles Duhigg.

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Date: 4/22/2019 8:04:00 AM
Thanks for an most enjoyable poem, Jenny! Many people are in the habit of acquiring new habits, and eventually cannot cope with any of them! I have few or hardly any habits, one of them being a daily fast walk. ~ Warm regards & hugs // paul
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Jennifer Proxenos
Date: 4/22/2019 12:26:00 PM
What wonderful walks you must have in Malta - Very healthy hobby - I have two - definitely poetry, and yoga twice a week for the last 7 years . Thank-you for a lovely comment. Warm regards and hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/21/2019 8:06:00 AM
Hello Jennifer Proxenos, we atr all creatures of habits. Everyone has their own habits and ways of doing things. Have a nice day my friend.
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Jennifer Proxenos
Date: 4/22/2019 2:09:00 AM
Hi Darlene hope you relax an enjoy Easter Monday, before the hustle and bustle of life we join again tomorrow - I enjoy a break but more enjoyable is the habit of routine. Thank you for your visit and comment. Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Date: 4/20/2019 1:29:00 AM
"Each season doing its very Own unique thing Responsible for this work of art, And time" So well done!
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Date: 4/20/2019 6:09:00 AM
Thank you Caren, so nice to have you visit - missed you. Love and poetry hugs, Jennifer
Date: 4/20/2019 12:46:00 AM
I read this one twice, I was careful not to read it three times for fear that it might be habit forming. This was a fun read.
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Date: 4/20/2019 6:07:00 AM
Ha Ha - that's funny Richard - Happy that it tickled your fancy! Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Date: 4/19/2019 1:56:00 PM
Yes, we do program ourselves. We have good habits and bad. Good job detailing how we have that internal need to schedule, Jennifer. Janice
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Date: 4/20/2019 6:05:00 AM
Thanks for a very relevant comment Janice - yes bad habits are easy to fall into, whereas good habits need willpower. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/18/2019 8:10:00 PM
We program in our habits and sometimes habits become addicting...Nicely expressed Jennifer...
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Date: 4/20/2019 5:59:00 AM
They absolutely do - and an addiction is extremely hard to break. Thank-you for a lovely comment Joseph. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/18/2019 6:33:00 PM
Hello Jennifer … great subject for your verse. You have cornered every one of us. I often think about the difference between habit and addiction for example smokers I know - some appear to be addicted, but some to smoke because of a habit, but not every smoking, I don't really know - another gem from you Jennifer - Lindsay
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Date: 4/20/2019 5:56:00 AM
Thank you Lindsay for an awesome comment - i think some people start drinking or smoking, or taking drugs as a social thing, which becomes a habit, and in time an addiction - very sad - Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/18/2019 5:30:00 PM
I like it, Jennifer!
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Jennifer Proxenos
Date: 4/20/2019 5:48:00 AM
Thank-you Kim, it just annoys me when people dont even care when they know, they are adopting a bad habit. Thank you for your visit, Love and hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/18/2019 3:35:00 PM
It's funny how we change over the years; things we hated as a kid become so much more important when we're older. If only we had that foresight as kids...well penned.
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Jennifer Proxenos
Date: 4/20/2019 5:45:00 AM
You have made a seriously correct point here! But what about the adults that are for example, are dying of cancer and still smoke? Or how did some adults become alcoholics - bad habits no will power, good habits have willpower. Thanks for a cool comment MLK. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/18/2019 3:14:00 PM
Enjoyed this insight you shared with us on power of habits..may be others will follow your lead to the gym. Kudos Jennifer for thinking about themes that I would find hard to write about.
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Date: 4/20/2019 5:36:00 AM
Thank you for your kind words Vijay - I truly appreciate your support. Actually, the gym was just for the poem but i do go to yoga twice a week which I love. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/18/2019 3:02:00 PM
Jennifer, great poem, new habits are hard to get used to but once they become routine as in exercising then you are hooked and they become the new you ~
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Date: 4/20/2019 5:32:00 AM
Absolutely Dear Heart, but then you also have the other side of the spectrum, when youngsters become habitual drug abusers. Life is like that in whatever, love, faith, health, weather - I could go on for ever, each aspect of life has its goo and bad habits. Thank-you for visiting - cool. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/18/2019 12:18:00 PM
Habits are always in my life since up at dawn till night But the scales always lie Nice you’ve started to exercise every day is a very good thing. My exercise is walking the dog four or five times a day so, I figure a put in a mile a day. My life might make a bigger change next week I hope babysitting my 8-month-old grandson that is the carbon copy of his dad and grandpa :) I am all excited. Happy Easter. Hugs Eve
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Jennifer Proxenos
Date: 4/18/2019 12:49:00 PM
Thank-you for a great comment Eve, walking the dog is one of the healthiest habits I could ever think of! Babysitting your 8 month old grandson, what a privilege and absolute joy - a Blessed Easter dear Eve. Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Date: 4/16/2019 7:49:00 AM
Why are good habits are hard to procure and easy to lose and bad habits are easy to maintain and hard to kick. Thanks Jen for the insight here. I think I'll make reading your work ....a habit GB
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Date: 4/16/2019 8:11:00 AM
Good point and thinking Jerry - Thank - you, I'll be visiting your page shortly. Looking forward to your comments after you have read more of my poems. Poetry Hugs, Jennifer!
Date: 4/15/2019 8:31:00 PM
It really is powerful.
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Date: 4/16/2019 1:04:00 AM
Habits can be powerful MLK and we sometimes adopt them without even realizing the are getting better or worse, it is when we realize this, that we make a conscious choice! Thanks for you visit MLK and a blessed Easter to you and your family. Blessings, Jennifer.
Date: 4/15/2019 1:00:00 PM
Fine write Jenny, great imagery and insightful thought too. Habits are indeed powerful. Blessings always,Gordon
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Date: 4/15/2019 1:50:00 PM
A blessed Easter to you and your family - hugs Jenny.
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Date: 4/15/2019 1:49:00 PM
Thank-you Gordon - they are indeed and can sometimes turn nasty! Poetry hugs. Jennifer.
Date: 4/15/2019 6:53:00 AM
'So long Hugh' I like that. Poetic license or hubby? A really great poem on this topic of habits. yours, Allen
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Jennifer Proxenos
Date: 4/15/2019 11:29:00 AM
Hi Allen, Poetic Licence it is! Thank you for a wonderful comment, had written this poem some time ago, but it needed some TLC, Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Date: 4/14/2019 7:26:00 AM
I am blessed to have had a fantastic teacher that introduced me to poetry when I was 11 years old. Then reading poetry and a few months later writing poetry became one of my lifelong habits. Your poem shines with its depths, insight profundity, style and message .. A fav..
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Jennifer Proxenos
Date: 4/14/2019 3:17:00 PM
Thank-you Robert, your comment is breathtaking, I started writing when I was 16, but sadly had no tutoring. I had a couple of long breaks from poetry but have always bounced back more determined than ever to write poems for the rest of my life. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/14/2019 6:08:00 AM
My habit has become poetry...but it is a good one Jennifer. This lyrical poem is so well-written and delight to read! : )
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Date: 4/14/2019 7:10:00 AM
Thank-you Connie, poetry is mine also. We all sometimes lapse into a habit however, that is of no use, but has become routine, without any reward! Blessings and poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/14/2019 4:55:00 AM
A meticulous rendition of the blessings and negative aspects of habits! You have a genuine flair in wrapping up your profound thoughts into beautiful poetry! I'm not surprised, soul sister.. love and hugs dear Jenny..
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Jennifer Proxenos
Date: 4/14/2019 7:06:00 AM
Besma my dear friend, are you back? Thank you, I have missed seeing you, and your wonderful poetry back on poetry soup! Hope you are well - your comments are always so loving and thoughtful. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/13/2019 4:07:00 PM
Life is like that sometimes and we feel daily chores are a habit. It's always best to change your approach sometimes or you will get stuck in a rut. Tom.
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Date: 4/14/2019 2:28:00 AM
And if you get stuck in a rut with daily chores , they become a bind and you eventually dislike what you do so yes, I agree with you, vary your chores, or add something new to them . Perhaps domestic help who will wear long black, stockings and a short skirt with a frilly white frilly apron and cap perched on her head with a bunch of flowing hair, but best she doesn't only speak Spanish! ha, ha, ha, just a suggestion, teasing you Tom. Poetry hugs, Jennifer
Date: 4/13/2019 1:49:00 PM
Some people say if you do something for 30 days it becomes a habit. I am living proof that it is not true. Great poem. Have a good day.
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Panagiota Romios
Date: 4/19/2019 8:22:00 PM
David..I have habits. But consider none bad,no destructive habits allowed. I want to live long. I don't have a position on habits until I notice one is running my life. I do my best to stop being perfect...that's the worst habit))) like,,who cares?? Nobody. LOL. Panagiota
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Jennifer Proxenos
Date: 4/13/2019 2:13:00 PM
Thanks David, your comment is really thought provoking - thanks for the visit - a peaceful and wonderful Easter to you and yours. Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 4/13/2019 1:48:00 PM
- Most people like to try new things, but it is very difficult to change habits:) - Great writing my friend Jenny :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
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Date: 4/13/2019 2:10:00 PM
I agree, but I would think that the younger one is, the more adaptable they are to adopting habits, unfortunately some bad as well as good! Thank you Sunshine Smile - you always send rays of sunshine when you visit! Poetry hugs, Jennifer

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