Passion Without Love

I can not understand now passion with a man without love, This happened when I got to know the big guy up above, Many Christians are still lost in sexual sin for some reason, Still having sex without love like they are in the milky season. I have seen men know Jesus possibly a year maybe two, Carrying on like playboy bachelors and a wrong choice issue, Desire is natural, but we must tame the flesh from action too, Or the Lord will not be pleased and judgment will be due. I have seen men know Jesus possibly a year maybe two, But still choose those asleep just for someone to screw, I try very hard to understand this out of control ********, If it carries on the Lord will most certainly choose rejection. ~~~~~ it honestly confuses me when someone is awake, still choosing many lovers, then the ones they choose WHOA when i got woken up that was it, no sex without love, desire I have had...but not the action..no actions... I see many men still out of control in this area of their lives posting up many lovers and so forth...