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Pop was quite a poet, though his bio wouldn’t show it, with the exception of this little poem which I really do feel I owe him. He was happiest working in the wood, and did so when ere he could. That was one of his necessary incomes, for his five daughters and four sons. It was then he would sing a song, Always short and politically wrong. The rhymes could make us boys smile, If not but for just a little while. In the woods he was a self educated master, He loved it there; peace is what he was after, Everywhere else, us boys were a bit wary, His temper trigger was a little hairy. Brought up roughly, a Canadian farmer’s son, A machine gunner in the Second Big One, I never heard those gruesome stories very often, Only when he allowed his heart to soften. PTSD and nightmares were his living hell, complicated with Malaria fevers as well. With depression a formidable resistance, He farmed for his family’s existence. In good moments he would sing poems of an alter life, Where there was, obviously, no such strife, Of “when he would go swimmin With many bull legged wimmin”. Those feeling good songs rang out loud and gay, To keep his painful depression at bay. “Yes ... we have no bannaners, We have no bannaners today!” Canadian French was his language norm, So many of his songs took that form. I’m sure Mom was his best and biggest fan, She must have really loved that man. He had a hard life and his song poems helped him through, We were often at odds but he did what I could never do. An unknown hard man with a well hidden poetic heart, I don’t think he knew it, but Mom did from the start. For each of his children’s names, he made a French rhyme, Making the most of poetic license for each of his nine. They probably weren’t politically correct… But at least for that one moment, we .. Each of us ... were his elect. ( Dedicated to the memory of Rene Francis Dufresne 1917-1998 ) written by Bob Dufresne 6/5/11

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Date: 11/22/2011 8:03:00 PM
Quite a Dad I would say, wonderful family who loved him and his gift of poetry. Great memories you have which has to be the best legacy a man can leave to his family!
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Date: 8/10/2011 9:39:00 AM
Wonderful tribute Robert, a delight to read :)
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Date: 7/25/2011 11:54:00 PM
Lovely, so nice. Lee
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Date: 6/8/2011 8:49:00 PM
A wonderful tribute poem. I hope he sees it from heaven!
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Date: 6/8/2011 4:02:00 PM
This was quite a tribute. Vince
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Date: 6/7/2011 8:10:00 PM
This couplet dear poet was a pleasur to read sir, and how pleasant it was to set me in sweet dreams fo the night sir ! Awesome write my friend, and I thank you for sharing this ....much love, james
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Date: 6/7/2011 3:16:00 PM
* i meant... sentiments here SHOW* :)
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Date: 6/7/2011 3:15:00 PM
well, you can hide it a bit but the deep sentiments here shows you were HIT!! a lovely, loving tribute, robert. i am touched! :) huggs, nette
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Date: 6/7/2011 12:46:00 AM
Oh Bob, you cracked me up with this one. Who was it alway pulling all those boners, Norm Crosby?
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Date: 6/6/2011 10:38:00 AM
this was a touching poem, reaching the heart deeply. my father was born in 1904 and died in 1970, but it sounds like you had a great relationship with him. My uncle and brother were in world 2, so i can relate with this beautiful write.
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Date: 6/5/2011 5:09:00 PM
Very wonderful Robert, a nice and moving dedication. I don't see where I got the movement for poetry. But, my daughter came with a natural gift of poetry. And Robert, i find this very amusing with the great moment you share .. thanks for sharing,..p.d.
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Date: 6/5/2011 3:22:00 PM
Rob, your father was born around the same time as mine and those who survived WW2 and the Great Depression learned to be thankful for small things. I would have loved to hear him sing those poems of his "alter life." He was a member of the Greatest Generation and you should be very proud. Beautiful, touching write. Love, Carolyn
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Date: 6/5/2011 2:45:00 PM
A Veteran, farmer, hard working father with a wonderful creative spirit....hmmmm......someone else on the Soup site sounds very similar to him! A touching tribute...you are hugging your dad thruout this heart warming write. Wish he could hear this first person...just lovely, Robert. Gwendolen
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Date: 6/5/2011 6:37:00 AM
Beautiful write my friend and a memory that I am so glad you have shared....touching and sweet......Michael
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