A Ballad upon a Wedding
Read 'A Ballad upon a Wedding' by 'Sir John Suckling' and provide your summary and literary analysis in the comments section below.
I tell thee, Dick, where I have been,
Where I the rarest things have seen,
O, things without compare!
Such sights again cannot be found
In any place on English ground,
Be it at wake or fair.
At Charing Cross, hard by the way
Where we, thou know'st, do sell our hay,
There is a house with stairs;
And there did I see coming down
Such folks as are not in our town,
Forty at least, in pairs.
Amongst the rest, one pest'lent fine
(His beard no bigger, though, than thine)
Walked on before the rest:
Our landlord looks like nothing to him;
The King (God bless him!) 'twould undo him,
Should he go still so dressed.
At course-a-park, without all doubt,
He should have first been taken out
By all the maids i' th' town:
Though lusty Roger there had been,
Or little George upon the Green,
Or Vincent of the Crown.
But wot you what? the youth was going
To make an end of all his wooing;
The Parson for him stayed.
Yet, by his leave, for all his haste,
He did not so much wish all past,
Perchance, as did the maid.
The maid (and thereby hangs a tale),
For such a maid no Whitsun-ale
Could ever yet produce;
No grape that's kindly ripe could be
So round, so plump, so soft, as she,
Nor half so full of juice!
Her finger was so small the ring
Would not stay on, which they did bring;
It was too wide a peck:
And to say truth (for out it must),
It looked like a great collar (just)
About our young colt's neck.
Her feet beneath her petticoat,
Like little mice, stole in and out,
As if they feared the light:
But oh! she dances such a way,
No sun upon an Easter Day
Is half so fine a sight!
He would have kissed her once or twice,
But she would not, she was so nice,
She would not do 't in sight:
And then she looked as who should say
"I will do what I list today,
And you shall do 't at night."
Her cheeks so rare a white was on,
No daisy makes comparison,
(Who sees them is undone),
For streaks of red were mingled there,
Such as are on a Catherine pear,
(The side that's next the sun).
Her lips were red, and one was thin
Compared to that was next her chin, -
(Some bee had stung it newly);
But, Dick, her eyes so guard her face,
I durst no more upon them gaze
Than on the sun in July.
Her mouth so small, when she does speak
Thou'dst swear her teeth her words did break,
That they might passage get;
But she so handled still the matter,
They came as good as ours, or better,
And are not spent a whit.
If wishing should be any sin,
The Parson himself had guilty been,
(She looked that day so purely);
And, did the youth so oft the feat
At night, as some did in conceit,
It would have spoiled him surely.
Just in the nick, the cook knocked thrice,
And all the waiters in a trice
His summons did obey.
Each servingman, with dish in hand,
Marched boldly up, like our trained band,
Presented, and away.
When all the meat was on the table,
What man of knife or teeth was able
To stay to be entreated?
And this the very reason was,
Before the parson could say grace,
The company was seated.
The business of the kitchen's great,
For it is fit that man should eat;
Nor was it there denied.
Passion o' me, how I run on!
There's that that would be thought upon,
I trow, besides the bride.
Now hats fly off, and youths carouse,
Healths first go round, and then the house:
The bride's came thick and thick;
And when 'twas named another's health,
Perhaps he made it hers by stealth.
And who could help it, Dick?
O' th' sudden, up they rise and dance;
Then sit again and sigh and glance;
Then dance again and kiss.
Thus several ways the time did pass,
Whilst every woman wished her place,
And every man wished his!
By this time all were stolen aside
To counsel and undress the bride;
But that he must not know;
And yet 'twas thought he guessed her mind,
And did not mean to stay behind
Above an hour or so.
When in he came, Dick, there she lay
Like new-fallen snow melting away
('Twas time, I trow, to part).
Kisses were now the only stay,
Which soon she gave, as one would say,
"God-be-with-ye, with all my heart."
But, just as Heavens would have, to cross it,
In came the bridesmaids with the posset:
The bridegroom ate in spite;
For, had he left the women to 't,
It would have cost two hours to do 't,
Which were too much that night.
At length the candle's out, and now
All that they had not done they do;
What that is, who can tell?
But I believe it was no more
Than thou and I have done before
With Bridget and with Nell.
A Ballad upon a Wedding Summary and Analysis
Sir John Suckling stages this wedding as a lively report from a gossiping observer who addresses his friend Dick in a voice full of swagger, wit, and amused intimacy. What begins like a casual tale of "rarest things" quickly turns into a comic procession of the bride, groom, guests, feast, dancing, and the private moments after the celebration. The poem moves briskly from public display to private consummation, with each stanza adding another detail that both flatters and mocks the wedding's social pomp.
At the center is a delightedly irreverent eye that measures the bride's beauty in comparisons drawn from country life, food, animals, weather, and everyday objects. The speaker admires her, but he also turns her into a playful object of male commentary, while the groom appears eager, impatient, and slightly comic. The poem's real energy comes from the tension between celebration and innuendo: the wedding is presented as a festive, orderly event, yet the language keeps slipping toward erotic suggestion. By the end, the public ritual dissolves into after-dark ambiguity, and Suckling leaves the reader with a joke that is both cheeky and evasive.
Tone in A Ballad upon a Wedding
Suckling's tone is breezy, mischievous, and knowingly amused; he sounds like someone relishing a juicy story and enjoying his own verbal performance. The mood for the reader is energetic and teasing, but also slightly bawdy, because the poem keeps hinting at more than it directly says. What begins as cheerful celebration gradually becomes a comic performance of appetite, flirtation, and innuendo.
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Themes in A Ballad upon a Wedding
- Wedding celebration and social festivity - The poem turns a marriage feast into a scene of motion, noise, food, dancing, and communal display, emphasizing the public spectacle surrounding the union.
- Erotic desire - Beneath the cheerful wedding report runs a strong current of sexual admiration and anticipation, especially in the descriptions of the bride and the newly married couple.
- Humor and playfulness - The poem relies on comic exaggeration, mock-serious comparisons, and teasing delivery, making the whole wedding story feel like a good-natured joke.
- Male wit and banter - The direct address to Dick creates a masculine, conversational frame in which the speaker shows off his cleverness and shares the tale as if it were private gossip.
- Public ceremony versus private life - The poem contrasts the formal wedding rituals with the implied intimacy that follows, highlighting how social ritual gives way to personal desire.
- Beauty and idealization - The bride is praised through a chain of comparisons that lift her above ordinary people and objects, even as the imagery stays earthy and comic.
Literary Devices in A Ballad upon a Wedding
- Apostrophe - The repeated address to "Dick" gives the poem a lively conversational shape and makes the narration feel immediate and confidential.
- Extended simile - The bride is described through a long sequence of comparisons to fruit, flowers, animals, and natural images, which intensifies both admiration and comic extravagance.
- Hyperbole - Suckling repeatedly enlarges the scene and the bride's beauty beyond ordinary measure, creating a tone of delighted excess.
- Satire - The poem gently mocks wedding customs, male vanity, and ceremonial propriety by exposing the gap between public respectability and private appetite.
- Imagery - Vivid sensory details of food, clothing, movement, and complexion make the wedding feel crowded, physical, and alive.
- Contrast - The poem continually shifts between ceremony and desire, formality and flirtation, so that each polished social moment is shadowed by comic insinuation.
- Colloquial diction - Everyday phrases and rough, joking speech keep the poem grounded in conversation rather than lofty celebration.
- Understatement - The closing lines veil the night's events in a casual joke, which makes the implied intimacy seem both playful and sly.
Symbolism in A Ballad upon a Wedding
- Haymaking and market talk - The opening references to ordinary rural life set up a comic contrast with the elegance of the wedding party, suggesting the speaker's plain, observant viewpoint.
- The bride's ring - The ring hints at marriage's formal bond, while the joking detail that it barely fits also suggests the bride's physical fullness and the comic pressure of ceremony.
- The candle - The candle's going out marks the transition from public festivity to private darkness, where the poem lets implication replace open description.
- The posset - This traditional wedding drink symbolizes the social customs that regulate the celebration and interrupt the couple's privacy.
- Feasting and dishes - The meal stands for abundance and communal rejoicing, but it also reinforces the poem's bodily, sensual atmosphere.
- Dancing - Repeated dancing symbolizes festive social energy and the restless movement of courtship, desire, and anticipation throughout the celebration.
Historical Context of A Ballad upon a Wedding
The poem belongs to the world of seventeenth-century English courtly and Cavalier writing, where wit, polish, social pleasure, and erotic play often went together. Cavalier poets commonly favored graceful lyric surfaces while treating love, courtship, and festivity with ironic sophistication rather than solemnity. Suckling's poem fits that tradition by turning a wedding into a scene of elegant mockery and sensual delight.
Its comic energy also reflects a period when marriage poems, festive verse, and witty occasional poetry circulated among readers who appreciated social satire and verbal sparkle. The poem draws on older ballad habits in its direct address and storytelling voice, but it refashions them into a courtly, knowing entertainment aimed at a polite audience familiar with such playful ambiguity.
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