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My previous poem, "Renovation After A Narcissist", is about getting rid of and getting one's life back after a narc has wreaked havoc with one's life and usually in every imaginable and unimaginable way possible. This poem is about truly and deeply loving a narc.
Falling in love with a narc is easy for they are super charming and they are extremely skilled at presenting themselves as being your 'perfect love'. But by the time you realise the character type you're in love with, you'll already be in quicksand up to your neck or higher. You'll believe that if you just love them enough, they'll become better individuals and of course, will reciprocate your love. But narcs are 'INCAPABLE of love'! They can ONLY love their 'fake selves'.
The better person you are, the more driven they are to destroy you. The more intelligent you are, the more driven they are to conquer you, since on both fronts, the trophies are huge accomplishments for them, because then they know they are improving their honing skills of deception.
Narcs are really very insecure and are cowards and they, in actuality, loathe themselves and so they perfect a fake version of themselves, which they hone and project and love. Good and caring people they especially like to destroy, since good people represent everything they are not 'in reality' and narcs hate to be reminded of their weaknesses, shortcomings, and a general lack of character pluses, and they never, according to them, make mistakes.
The most important thing to remember, if you find yourself in this predicament, is, you CANNOT change a narc! If you believe you can, they will only destroy 'you'!