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Blog Posted:7/5/2010 1:40:00 PM
Hiya

I'm writing here because I'm not sure just what else to do.
I really can't think straight about today's events.

It should be every employee's right to turn up to work an NOT be assaulted right?

That's what I thought.

Today I was physically assaulted by my boss. Things haven't been going well for a few weeks now but I really didn't expect her to come flying at me like some crazy wailing banshee, pushing me into a brick wall...twice. Needless to say, I no longer have a job.

So, I had some nice photos taken of my injured arm down at the police station, just incase I decide to press charges of assault. I thought I'd sleep on it and decide tomorrow.

Right now I think I deserve my glass or two of wine, what do you think?

~ a grazed & bruised Sharon 



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Date: 7/10/2010 7:59:00 PM
I'm so sorry I missed seeing this blog until now, Sharon. I am sorry something like this had to happen to someone as nice as you. I'm hoping you are feeling better about the whole unfortunate experience....but truly sorry it happened. Love, Carrie
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Date: 7/8/2010 7:11:00 PM
No one no how deserves that kind of treatment. I thought we were a bit screwed up in the 50's and 60's but this world now has been liberalized into a circus. We kiss terrorist butt but can murder unborn kids. Money can't buy happiness, but today it can buy freedom from the laws. Do not allow her to get away with it. Get some public support also. God Bless. Vince
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Date: 7/8/2010 4:13:00 AM
That's just crazy! Press charges, by all means. You'll be better off in a different job anyway. Who wants to work for a maniac? Glad you got out of there before anything worse could happen. Jeez....***Danielle***
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Date: 7/6/2010 10:47:00 AM
Wow, thank you everyone for your messages of advice and support. I wrote the blog because I couldn't stop things from going over and over in my head, I thought it might help. I'm amazed at all the support from you guys, thank you, you're all so lovely :)The problem I have is that the woman who assaulted me actually owns the business, so there is no superior to go to, and I have no witnesses. I am still seeking advice though & hopefully I'll soon know my way forward. My injuries are relatively minor, so thankfully they'll heal quickly. Thanks again & hugs to you all ~ Sharon xx
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Date: 7/6/2010 3:40:00 AM
Sharon - I am shocked and appauled by what happened to you and agree with what other soupers are saying - this woman has no right to attack you and you should not have lost your job - in fact it should be the other way around - she should lose hers. I definately think that you should take this further, firstly by consulting a lawyer where you will find out how to proceed. I also think that her immediate superiors need to be contacted - who is to know if she will not do the same to another employer. I sincerely hope you get things sorted quickly and your arm doesnt hurt too much. Regards Janette
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Date: 7/6/2010 2:16:00 AM
Sharon, I am so sorry, Jerri
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Date: 7/5/2010 8:31:00 PM
Sharon, make that a Bottle or two! I am still as shocked about this right now--and I could only imagine what you are going through--your boss should definitely bear the consequences of what she did to you--stress is never an excuse to do anything like that-- I am just thankful that you did not hit your head-- how's your arm right now? and hopefully you'd recover soon from it--even just physically for the moment-- I think everybody here gave sound advice--major hugs again to you!! Hopefully your arm & back aren't too painful anymore...nikko
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Date: 7/5/2010 4:58:00 PM
Sharon if there were witnesses to this assault contact a lawyer immediately.. u have a great lawsuit and will win.. depending on which State u live in and how their local laws read u are entitled to pay and time off to recover from your injuries.. hope u went to the nearest hospital and had photos taken too.. this is the process.. u CANNOT lost your job over this incident.. if u want an extra power boost contact your local TV station and radio personality ..make them aware of the company name and location.. write your Congressman too.. or local Senator or Rep ... move on it quickly and good luck.. sorry ..hope all goes well for u dear.. with luv from the "Sweetheart"
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Date: 7/5/2010 3:39:00 PM
I totally agree with everyone else's comments! She had no right to treat you that way no matter the circumstances! I hope all goes well for you and I hope that you know everyone here at the soup is behind you!~Tirzah~
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Date: 7/5/2010 2:19:00 PM
Listen to the guys, Sharon. And curious me, I am wanting to know WHAT made someone go off like THAT??? I do have to tell you though. My hubbie has had these things happen to him in Utah, only it was other employees doing it to him (although he has been verbally assulted really bad by employers here). IN all cases, when we called a lawyer, they were no help at all, just saying, "Utah always favors the employer, Unless you are a minority, don't even bother to try to take this to court." I wish you the best. Hopefully things are better in England than in the crazy state of Utah. LUv, Andrea
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Date: 7/5/2010 2:05:00 PM
Sharon: I'm very sorry to learn of your circumstances. I agree with Mac - I don't think I would let this pass. I worked in the Colorado State court system for about 10 years as a Bailiff and saw many cases such as yours and they usually won. You are a valued member of Soup and we treasure your friendship. Wish you luck not only in your poetical journey but in the assualt case as well - Bob H
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Date: 7/5/2010 1:54:00 PM
I think you need to press charges for harrassment and assult. No employer or employer representative has the right to physically assult an employee. It makes no difference why she attacked you, the law is specific on your rights. Do not wait, press charges and sue the company for lost wages and harrassment. Contact a lawyer, their consultation is free and they will let you know how to proceed. If you wait your case will get weaker. Right now, today, write down or record everything you remember leading up to the attack, the attack, and after the attack.
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