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To Forgive Or Not To Forgive

To forgive or not to forgive, that is the question. When you are offended, whether real or imagined by a loved one, a friend, or by someone esteemed, do you confront the other, or resolve to be patient? If by some stroke of luck, the offender apologized but turns around, talking glib gobbledygook, do you keep silent and still, looking cool as ice, or do you tell it to his face, that he’s more than a crook? At such time as this, or any time for that matter, it is best to forgive whether he asks for it or not. Do not poison your heart with cyanide blather; bitterness can bother like a bat’s up your butt! Forgiveness frees the offended from the devil’s deceit; and makes you smile at the debtor, as his debt, you forfeit. *First line draws on Hamlet's soliloquy, Act III, Scene 1; W. Shakespeare A modern sonnet. 06 October 2015 Poem of the Week - October 11 to 17, 2015

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Date: 2/13/2016 6:08:00 PM
Kim you have touched my heart very, very deeply with your wonderful words as many of your poems I have read I have I have found tears of love in which I send across the heavens for God to touch on there way to you and to say never give up and never surender you love of God you are a very, very welcome writer for God and you have the true passion and love to shear His wisdom God's blessings lots of love and prayers to you always
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Date: 11/6/2015 12:14:00 PM
Hey Kim, a warm and hearty congratulations on your winning poem in the Screwed 7 contest! I knew it should have won when I first read it. So glad Rob saw the excellent writing and expression. Be Blessed, Neva
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Date: 11/5/2015 12:10:00 PM
Kim, congrats on your win in Rob Carmack's contest. SKAT
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Date: 11/4/2015 10:16:00 PM
Congrats on huge win Kim with this superb write!
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Kp Nunez
Date: 11/5/2015 9:57:00 AM
Thank you, Dr. Upma. It is not a huge win, however, but I don't question the sponsor's judgment. hugs!
Date: 11/4/2015 10:42:00 AM
many congrats on your win Kim :-) hugs jan xx
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Jan Allison
Date: 11/4/2015 11:33:00 AM
Just posted it wrote it in Malta about 4 days ago:-( hugs jan xx
Date: 10/29/2015 10:18:00 AM
Congrats on a great work. Maybe you would like mine Turn the page, similar sentiments, although not the same quality.
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Date: 10/18/2015 6:58:00 AM
congratulation ..
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Date: 10/16/2015 1:19:00 PM
Congrats Kim for POW,This begs for a lesson for all of us.
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Date: 10/15/2015 2:12:00 PM
Congratulations on Poem Of The Week...
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Date: 10/14/2015 10:29:00 AM
Hey Kim, a warm and hearty congratulations on your poem being chosen for POTW!! A well needed lesson for us all to remember. Excellent writing and best wishes in the contest!! Be Blessed, Neva
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Date: 10/13/2015 12:04:00 PM
Awesome write Kim, congratulations on POTW, well deserved ;) *hugs*
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Date: 10/13/2015 9:23:00 AM
Congratulations on your win
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Date: 10/12/2015 9:31:00 AM
Kim, a big congratulations on having this amazing poem selected as Poem Of The Week, enjoy the honor ...
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Date: 10/12/2015 8:09:00 AM
Grats on poem of the week! Wonderfully done!
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Date: 10/11/2015 12:49:00 PM
Hello Kim, Congratulations on POTW!! I think you would've captured Shakespeare's heart for sure with your first verse, and the rest of this wonderful sonnet. Brilliant Work. 7 + FAV in my book!! Cheers and Best, Gary
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Date: 10/11/2015 10:43:00 AM
loving it....as his debt, you forfeit...brilliant
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Date: 10/11/2015 9:36:00 AM
All I can say is BRILLIANT! Congratulations Kim.
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Date: 10/11/2015 6:36:00 AM
Kim, you have penned words we all should live by. Great job! Congratulations on getting the poem of the week it was well deserved. Enjoy the honor:-) Alexis
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Date: 10/10/2015 7:47:00 PM
Great job! I love the flow you carry :) I will read some other poems of yours tonight :) -LU
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Date: 10/9/2015 7:13:00 AM
I read your many times KIM, a fascinating write like this worth a FAV..........A.M.
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Kp Nunez
Date: 10/9/2015 3:32:00 PM
Wow...been a long times since another poet came back for another read and to fav. Thanks, AM!
Date: 10/9/2015 7:08:00 AM
Your write is indeed a great and write worthy of praise KIM.....an extreme brilliant write that swims eloquent within the readers mind and sense, this makes a flame of forgiveness to spread through their mind....a light and lovely write....brilliant one.........A.M.
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Afolabi Muideen
Date: 10/9/2015 7:09:00 AM
Flam of forgiving!
Date: 10/9/2015 5:45:00 AM
Pride gets in the way of forgiving. Your poem expresses the virtues of forgiving, even when the person has too much pride to ask for fogivness. There is a lot of wisdom in this excellent piece Kim.
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Date: 10/8/2015 3:57:00 PM
I always like to forgive and hope others can forgive me. No one is perfect in this world. Not even me : )
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Date: 10/8/2015 3:52:00 PM
you said you have yet to see a sonnet that uses levity in a serious situation. Haha. I have several like that. Glad I came back here to see you had posted me a message.
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Kp Nunez
Date: 10/9/2015 3:29:00 PM
Hi Andie! I'm afraid I got home late and got tangled in the business of subbing for Jack Ellison who's out of commission. Will visit tomorrow instead...PS. Pulled JIM THE TRIM from hiding for Jack...
Date: 10/8/2015 7:56:00 AM
I agree, go the forgiveness route!
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Kp Nunez
Date: 10/9/2015 3:26:00 PM
Thanks, Rick!
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